You knew something was wrong, but it never dawn on you it could be this serious. Wasn’t just another cold or a back pain? Just like the ones you have had a thousand times before? Suddenly you are having tests done and nurses are speaking about “masses” and then you are scheduled to see and oncologist. It doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out you are in trouble-bad trouble. So when you begin Mesothelioma Cancer Treatment, what do you tell the kids?
The roller coaster ride of your own emotions is bad enough. There might be some question as to what exactly to tell the family if they live near you. Maybe your family is not close at all. Then you are wondering why you are bothering with all this about other people when you are suddenly in the fight of your life?
It seems when a major crises in a family happens, initially there is a lot of concern. People and children you haven’t seen in a while begin showing up. There is a bit of a feeling that the vultures are circling and there’s this question why these people couldn’t have at least called when times were good. (more…)

